Seeking matrimony for their children has been a major challenge that has confronted many Hindu Parents from around the world, for many years now! The “search and seek” processes have evolved over the past six decades from just a “friendly, family intro” to through web portals, to marriage brokers, onto via internet ads and lately via Apps!
For many, trying to connect in matrimony through some web portals has been a daunting and frustrating experience! to say the least! With their sons and daughters remaining unmarried even after several years!
Frustrated as they are, many Parents then look at other possible avenues in their “search and seek process”, with nowhere else to go other than “marriage brokers”, not all of whom, being quite as helpful; others turn onto seeking alliances through internet media, having exhausted other avenues.
Average cost of a matrimonial search via internet runs anywhere from 4,000 to 10, 500 rupees, if not more,– moreover, money spent on internet ads lose their value immediately after the week-end is over, as no one ever goes back to look at last week’s internet ads. This is where our archiving helps!
Moreover, if people who are searching and seeking, are traveling and or otherwise busy, chances of an internet ad catching the “discerning eyes” of a relentless seeker, is lost by the end of that week! So also your investment into internet advertising, at the end of the week.
In addition, parents involved in search processes globally, are unable to reach out every nook and corner of the world, regarding potential alliances ~ they either do not have the time nor can they look at every “nook and corner” of internet ads around the world!
Parents are thus limited ONLY to look at the internet ads locally and are not “privy” to other potential alliances in other parts of the country or the world! For instance, a person living in London or New York, Sydney or San Francisco, Toronto or Dubai, cannot get to view all of the internet ads placed all over the globe, in different cities and countries.
Our mission is to serve the truly motivated and serious seekers of matrimony by bringing together all the needs and wants of the internet seekers of alliances from around the world ~ from India, the United States, the U.K., Canada, Australia, and other parts of the world, under one roof in ads4matrii.com, archiving them, with your permission, and extending their outreach to every one living in all corners of the globe, yet preserving your privacy, identity, secrecy and confidentiality of the information, in public domain! Yet, extending the shelf-life your internet “seek and search” process and the investment you have made into internet search costs, just beyond that that one week-end.
This is where, a search through ads4matri.com can help you reach out and connect with serious, motivated, alliances of brides and grooms.
Our experience tells me that search through internet barely evokes half a dozen, if not fewer responses when it is initiated on behalf of a groom and probably slightly more, when initiated on behalf of brides. Most of them end-up as not being well-qualified responses, meeting their needs and wants!
Nevertheless, parents initiating search process through internet are very serious, active and truly motivated seekers of alliances for their wards, because attempts via other channels have failed, and yet, very seldom, does one seem connect in matrimony through internet ad campaign, in their very first attempt ~ maybe, one out of 100!
My experience also tells me that it takes anywhere between 4 to 5 years, if not longer, to get married, from the time brides are launched into the matrimonial arena at age 23-24 to 27-28, upon graduating and settling down in life with a career; this is because, many brides are very seriously looking at alliances in a very focused manner, with their “discerning eyes” ~ seeking highly educated boys, earning a very handsome salary, well-settled in life, without family and financial obligations and commitments; yet, for many reasons, we find many brides in their late 30’s, and early 40’s, still remaining unmarried; for grooms who are launched into the matrimonial arena between the ages of 29 to 31, the process has been even more time-consuming, taking anywhere between 5 to 7 years, if not longer!
Needless to say, parents of brides and brides themselves are looking for alliances in a very focused manner, leaving out many prospective grooms from their scope of search!
And the reasons are as many, from Gothra, to Naksthram (birth star) incompatibilities, to sub-sect preferences, meaning Iyers seeking Iyers, Vadakalai Iyengars seeking Vadakalai Iyengars, Mudaliars seeking Mudaliars, Nairs seeking Nairs, Gujarati’s seeking Gujarati’s, Bengalis seeking Bengalis, Kayasthas seeking Kayasthas, Aggarwals seeking Aggarwals, and so on; or due to age, height, weight, looks, education, or limitations on relocation of the boy or the girl from Chennai to Mumbai or Bangalore to Delhi, or the girl being highly qualified than the boy, or the boy or the girl being U.S., stuck with a Green Card, H1B, J1, L1 and other visas, not able to permanently settle down in the U.S., or abroad, with an impending return to India or another country, wherever his job t takes him to ~ or those on Green Cards, not able to seek out spouses from India.
Yet, internet seekers to matrimony are very active, motivated and serious seekers of alliances.
Through ads4matri.com, you can access your wards’ profile, edit it with more exact information, creating a complete profile, adding his or her picture, download the horoscope (or a second photo in lieu of the horoscope) ~ and you get to park the complete profile in ads4matri.com, for free! Featuring the profile of your ward in ads4matri.com, is just free!
And with your subscription to ads4matri.com, you reach-out and connect with potentially good alliances, that are right for your ward, around the globe, 24 X 7, 365 days a year! Getting more in value for the money than you would spend on internet media!
Or, you can also opt out in ads4matri.com by simply deleting your ward’s profile from our database or replying to our email, saying, OPTING OUT!.
Remember, leaving the profile in there, will help other parents in connecting with you in matrimony! And, thus, may bring about a wedding celebration in your Family soon!
And keep in mind, internet advertisers seeking matrimony are very active, motivated and serious seekers of alliances.
My name is Sashti Srinivasan, Retired, used to work as Vice President, Sales and Marketing for a large Multinational Corporation in the U.S., having lived in the U.S. for over 39 years (in the Dallas, Texas area primarily), and a U.S. citizen; at 76, I have taken upon myself to dedicate the rest of my years unto serving the cause of parents of Indian origin who have children seeking matrimony, to help them connect them in Matrimony!!
Over the last five years, I have guided and educated Parents on many difficult and challenging issues facing them in consummating the marriages of children in the U.S. and abroad, on topics such as "H1B Visa, a Social Evil in Indian Matrimony? Can One Kind of Visa Holder Living in the U.S. Marry Another?” Various Kinds of Visas held by Indians living in the U.S. and How They Affect Matrimony? Ten Matches in Horoscope/Janam Kundli Matching and 13 Other Matches in this Modern Day and Age of Children Living Abroad! Can Marriages Be Performed within the ones belonging to the same Gothram (or Sagothram)? and some myriad other topics, all of them were well received by parents the world over!
The present attempt to share and disseminate various matrimonial seekers under one roof is yet another way I want to reach out to parents of brides and grooms from India and the world over!